You’ve had your baby. You’ve gotten through the first week or so, and maybe even a routine is starting to re-emerge from the chaos. It’s just you and your partner, building a little family in your little home, and all is sweet.
Your partner deserves a little quiet time, so you take babbling baby into the next room. “Hi baby,” you say, “how’s my little baby? Whatcha looking at? You enjoying being alive? How about those hockey playoffs?”
“What’s that?” Your partner yells in from the next room.
“Nothing,” you reply. “Just talking to the baby.”
You’ll hear a disgruntled grunt from the next room as your partner tries to resume the train of concentration/relaxation he or she was previously riding.
This scene will repeat itself over and over. The introduction of these one-sided conversations will lead to a bunch of were-you-talking-to-me-no-I-was-talking-to-the-baby-okay-fine-then exchanges. They’re mostly harmless, of course, but it’s one of those minor little annoyances that can plague the first few months of parenthood.
Fortunately, there’s a way to get around them: use an accent!
That’s right, adopt an accent while talking to your baby. French, Cockney, Jersey — the choice is yours. Just be sure to pick something that is clear, distinctive, and consistent; that way your partner will immediately know when your babble is directed at the baby. Not only will you clear up all this confusion with your partner, but your child will grow up to sound charmingly foreign!
Okay… actually there’s no way around this. You’ll get used to it; I just wanted to warn you.