Ruby celebrated her six-month birthday yesterday. With all those months behind us, it’s time to look back and see what products Kate and I found most useful.
Bob Revolution 2006 baby jogger (read my original review): The jogger gave Ruby and I something to do together and got us out of the house every day. Without this exercise outlet, I would have turned into a bowl of jello.
Radio Shack 3-unit intercom: For the same price as a “baby” monitor (see my review), you get a two-way radio with three base stations and infinitely better sound quality. There’s no battery-powered portable monitor, but with two strategically placed receivers and the volume on full, you’ll hear her throughout the house.
24-pack of cheap white face cloths: Kate’s Mom bought these for us, and I must admit I was skeptical at first. Now, they are a mainstay of our daily existence. After every load of laundry we grab a clean stack of a dozen place one in each place where we might be with the baby: the living room, bedroom, playroom, office, nursing chair, etc., etc. When Ruby presents you with some baby cheese, relief is never more than a few feet away.
Fuzzi Bunz Diapers (from Cotton Babies): We started Ruby on disposable diapers. These worked fine but are a waste of money and the planet’s resources. When she was a few months old we tried a diaper service for a month. The plain cotton diapers required changing much too frequently — any bit of wetness and Ruby was unhappy.
We ended up using Fuzzi Bunz cloth diapers. These are convenient, comfortable for Ruby, and washing them every three days isn’t too much of a pain. We have 24: 12 that we bought new, and 12 that we bought second-hand from Kate’s brother. We put the new ones on the top of the pile, and as soon as we get down to the used ones that’s the sign to do a load of diaper laundry.
Soothies: Kate says, “I don’t think I would have gotten through my nipple pain without them.”
A Soother: Kate and I were anti-pacifier for the first 3 weeks. But Ruby seemed to love sucking and after a particularly challenging day we gave our fingers a rest and popped one in. Her whole personality seemed to brighten overnight, and it’s now permanently attached to her clothing.
Slings: Jogging stroller notwithstanding, Kate and I hate strollers. We’d much rather carry Ruby around. To that end, we each have our favorite sling: hers is a Sidecar Designs model, which is probably the most comfortable one we’ve seen (aside from a mobi-wrap, which is more lifestyle than baby-carrier) as it distributes the weight fully across a shoulder and upper arm. These slings aren’t adjustable, so I can’t use Kate’s sling.
When we’re out together all day and carrying two slings isn’t feasible, we use a BabyBjorn carrier. Not as comfortable (or cool-looking) as the sling, but it fits us both.
Changing table tops: Instead of investing in a new diaper station for Ruby, we bought a u-shaped padded top to put on some existing furniture. This especially made sense for us since Ruby’s bedroom is upstairs, where we don’t hang out much, and it’s more convenient for us to have the changing station in the middle of the house.
Kate’s Mom also bought one but it didn’t see much use, so we put this extra one in her crib. She sleeps in it at night and the sloping sides keep her from flailing about too much.